5 Reasons Why Kids Need More Experiences and Not More Things
It’s December 25th and under the Christmas tree are a plethora of gifts neatly wrapped for our small family of four. It’s rightly so that most of the gifts are designated for our two eager-eyed boys that are patiently awaiting to unwrap their presents to see what Santa brought them. But aside from Santa’s gifts, there are presents from mommy and daddy, Gramma & Papa Jerry, Gramps and Granny D, Paw Paw, Papa Irv, Aunty Nay Nay, and Auntie Deb. Wrapping paper flows around the house like snowflakes coming down from the sky, as one gift after another is opened. The amount of time that they spend pouring over one present lasts for about 30-seconds, before they move on to the next one. It’s really fun to watch them go through their routine and the witness their level of excitement. We know that they’re appreciative of their new toys, gadgets and games, but after a week or two of playing with their new things, the newness wears off.
We’ve been fortunate to have traveled to a lot cool places with the boys; to countries like Costa Rica, and Mexico, and cities like Vancouver, Toronto, Miami, Los Angeles, and Seattle. It’s pretty evident that spending time in those places leaves lasting memories for all us, and the boys often reminisce about specific moments that were special to them. From sleeping outside in a tent on an island in Vancouver to spotting large crocodiles on a river tour in Costa Rica, they’ve had some amazing experiences. I do realize that a lot of folks may not be able to travel to different countries, however, you can still provide your kids with some amazing experiences that they will appreciate more than material things.
My wife Alayna and I started our dining club for kids, Little Diner’s Crew, as way to expand kids’ palates and take little ones on a tour around the world through food. We wanted to provide kids with a dining experience that they would remember and allow them not only to sample ethnic cuisine, but learn about different, customs, cultures and traditions. We felt that both kids and parents would enjoy our events, and we were right. It’s cool to see how excited kids are to taste new dishes and to interact with chefs. Often, their experience becomes a conversation piece with their family and sometimes friends.
Aside from food and travel, there are experiences for kids that involve the outdoors, museums, national parks, camps, and even technology. Free experiences can include hosting a family picnic or family reunion, starting a lemonade stand or family business, biking and exploring different neighborhoods, or baking and cooking together. Charitable activities are especially important, as kids are able to experience how to help others.
Here are my 5 reasons why kids need more experiences and less material things.
- Memories last longer than toys – Playing Fortnite for hours on the Xbox will eventually end and something else will take its place. As your kids get older, they won’t appreciate the hundreds of dollars you spent on gaming, but they will remember and appreciate the time you took them hiking, fishing or boating.
- They learn to accept and appreciate that people are different from them – It’s imperative for kids to learn about different cultures in today’s world. Being able to interact with individuals from different walks of life at an early age could be an invaluable experience that will broaden their perspective about people in general.
- Brings kids and parents closer together – Family time can easily be lost on technology, TV, work and school. We all get caught up in our day-to-day activities and miss out on quality time with our kids. Experiences can reconnect families and give everyone something to talk about. Planning an annual outing will give kids something to look forward to year after year.
- Stimulates creativity – If you engage your kids and ask them to help plan a family outing, you’re not only empowering them to be involved in decision-making, but also allowing them to use their creativity. You’ll be amazed what experiences kids will come up with when they’re given the greenlight to be creative.
- Things don’t bring kids happiness – We all know that a toy will make a kid happy for about two seconds, but a trip to Disney World will leave them smiling for months. Stop trying to bring temporary joy to your child by buying material things, because it will fade quickly. Watch their eyes light up when they reminisce about the dining experience they had on your family vacation.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that we should stop giving gifts to our kids, but sometimes a better offering may be an experience that they can remember and pass on to their kids.
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“The Spanish Square is thrilled to work with LDC and give kids the opportunity to have an authentic Spanish tapas dining experience.”
“Naoki Sushi is thrilled to be participating with Little Diner’s Crew! We are so excited to share Chef’s Naoki’s playful mix of contemporary and classic Japanese cuisine with all ages – old, young and…younger!”
“The philosophy at Inspired Catering & Events along with the Stefani family of restaurants has always been deeply rooted in traditional family culture.
We are excited to play a part in broadening children’s horizons through their palates. We look forward to joining LDC and assisting in helping them explore new and unfamiliar foods through our dining experiences. We love bringing families together and trust that these first steps will be the catalyst for a delicious new world!”
“A great way for kids to learn and taste different foods in a fun and engaging atmosphere. Highly recommend joining and exploring Chicago with Little Diner’s Crew.”
“It was an absolute pleasure to have the Little Diners Crew visit Presidio. Exposure to a variety of restaurants and types of cuisines was an important part of my childhood and I love encouraging the next generation to do the same.
The Little Diners were attentive and fully engaged in the experience. Our team at Presidio especially enjoyed sharing knowledge about our food and cooking processes with the team.
This is a great learning opportunity for children of all ages!”
“Imagine leaving an adult restaurant proud of your kids… My 5 year old loved it! She tried foods she shies away from with her parents. Dining with contemporaries is a joy at every age and we got to make new friends while the kids answered questions allowing them to open up and share and learn. This is an extremely professional crew. The whole family Loved when we got the passport and credentials to dine!”
“Awesome concept and the events are great for the kids (and the grown-ups too). My son and I love Little Diner’s Crew.”
“Bread & Wine is honored to particpate in Little Diner’s Crew because when you broaden a childs horizon or get them to try something different or that they thought they were afraid of through food and they end up liking it! – that can translate positively in all other aspects of their lives.”
“It was a really fun night. Kids loved dining out with friends. I have 1 adventurous eater and 1 picky eater so it was fun to see the difference. I think a group setting made trying new foods more exciting than just being with mom and dad. They also enjoyed how interactive the restaurant was and that they could give their feedback too! A great addition to let adults indulge also- why should kids have all the fun?! This is a wonderful event to join with friends or a great opportunity to meet new foodie friends!”
“My 6yo and I had a great time! I love the chance to try new restaurants and introduce my child to new cuisines and experiences!”
“Thank you so much for bringing your wonderful LDC experience to Portsmith! We truly enjoyed having all the kids and showcasing what Portsmith is all about. It is a genius concept, and proven so by the fact that my son, (who claims to be “vegetarian”) definitely tried everything (actually scarfed down that fried fish slider).”
“Perfect for the whole Family!! We really enjoyed our Little Diners Crew Adventure! Not only did my daughter enjoy her food and experience with new friends, she was willing to try new food she’s never had before. Also, my husband and I enjoyed great conversation with the other parents while the kids had their fun! We look forward to our next Little Diners Crew experience!!!”
“Very well done. Our 4 year old loved it. We will be back.”